WIFE. MAMA. FRIEND. BELIEVER.

“Marriage is NOT the goal; it is not the finish line. It is simply an avenue that GOD uses for some of us––not all of us––to continue unveiling the work He’s already been performing in us. Our womanhood does not begin nor end with the institution of marriage; it is simply transformed.”
– #TheRibLifeJourney

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Welcome to

TheNicoleWebb.com

I don’t believe in coincidences. I believe in divine appointments. I believe that you are here for a reason––that you stumbled across this space for a purpose.

If there is anything we can learn from Eve,
The OG of #TheRibLifeJourney, it’s that we are all in some need of healing–from our past, from our present, or from the ever-evolving pharisaic & misogynistic culture that too often exists within the Body of Christ.

Whatever the ailment is, my prayer is that you find ANSWERS to your skepticism, COMMUNITY in your deconstruction, and
LOVE for your womanhood in this space.

However you arrived here, I’m happy you did.
Stay a while.

xo, Nic.

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“There’s an EVE in all of us. We owe it to her to forgive ourselves and heal—so that we can discover our GOD-given identity & sexuality—before we get to the altar.”

The Latest from #TheRibLifeJourney Blog.

#TheRibLifeJourney
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Work For It.

I’m juggling a new circus act called, “My Life” right now, and, currently, one of the things falling through the cracks: one-on-one time with my husband.

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I Hate This Part.

You know the part where we play pretend…the part where we pretend that we’re really confident in ourselves…

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Everybody Can’t Go With You…

As I continue to journey through adulthood, there’s one lesson that has presented itself to me more times than I’d like to admit:  EVERYBODY CAN’T GO WITH YOU.

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Slowly, Surely: A Prayer For Our Daughters…

Oftentimes, birthing a human being happens Slowly and Surely. It takes time.

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GROWTH 101: Relationships Change.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned in this season of my life as a newlywed and soon-to-be new mama it’s that your relationships will change. To be honest, they have to change.

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The Part They Don’t Warn You About: Prenatal Depression

Pregnancy is one of the most joyous times any woman can experience…but it can also be one of the most darkest.

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Expecting The Unexpected.

Moment of transparency: Sometimes unexpected blessings don’t feel so great in the moment. There is something to say about when the unexpected happens when you least expect it.

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Dear [Single] Nicole, Thank You.

I can’t really remember the first time you recognized your desire for marriage. But knee deep into your twenties, something shifted. After one failed relationship after the next, you decided to give up your desire for marriage.

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Sis, Buy Yourself Some Lingerie! Sensuality & Sexuality are NOT Sinful.

I came home from work one day, looked at myself in the mirror and was like, “WOW. She’s fire; she deserves amazing things!” So I put on a sexy playlist, poured myself a glass of wine, began parading my still fully clothed self around my apartment…and then I felt shame.

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I Cried The Day After I Got Engaged…Because I Was Sad.

An amazing man proposed to me in front of the most beautiful view…and it was PERFECT. But less than 24 hours later, I found myself driving down Route 13 back to my apartment in Salisbury…and I sobbed.