Hey There, I’m Nic!

So, who am I?! Well, I’m a 29-year-old Black, Christian woman searching for answers and certainty in an ever-changing, ever-evolving, and ever-uncertain world...just like you.

When I was in a senior in college, I started #TheRibLifeJourney—an online blog for young women after GOD’s heart searching for community and relatability in their singleness and celibacy journeys. At the time, there were so many other “Christian lifestyle blogs” for women. But their emphasis was on how to be a godly woman in order to obtain a godly marriage–not actually how to be a woman seeking true companionship and communion with GOD. And I wanted women to fully experience their journeys with the emphasis being on a relationship with GOD–not only finding a “godly man.” Then in May of 2020, The Transparency Pact was birthed in an effort to discover and understand my GOD-given sexuality and sensuality without shame, while maintaining purity as a GROWN. MILLENNIAL. ADULT. WOMAN.–through testimony and transparency.

By trade, I am a content writer and news producer…so, I does this for real, for real. I’m also an Emmy Award-winning news producer, and self-published poet and author of three poetry books.

NY-bred born and raised, I currently live in Baltimore, Maryland with my amazing husband, Neil, and our beautiful daughter, Nova Elle.